Showing posts with label holiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holiness. Show all posts

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Joy and Piety

As a cradle Catholic, I've grown up in a spiritual family that spans races, cultures and languages and listening to many similar and contrarian views about what constitutes true piety and whether one can be both pious and joyful at the same time, this article is to expound a less known trait of true piety - Joy. The question may be asked - what constitutes true happiness and what makes you or me happy. A cheerful nature attracts and helps foster growth and developing good relationships. A sense of humour helps one tide over adversities and struggles in life. There is a saying that without humour one is like a vehicle rolling over rocky terrain getting bumped up and down endlessly. Humour make the journey of life richer despite the struggles - the troughs which all people necessarily go through at some point.

Religious practice does mean considerable discipline and human effort. There comes to mind images of parents and elders telling younger members in the faith with a stern face "say your Rosary" or "put away your phone, we're entering a Church". Many of us grow up with a false notion that religious are sad, gloomy, uncool and downright boring, but this is simply not true. At the surface, it may seem so but when you drink deep of the Sancta Fe, literally translated the "Holy Faith", you realise a sense of humour in the holiest and most adversely suffering servants of Christ, needless to say the Lord himself.

A leading example of this holy joy is the apostle Paul. A man who as he says in his second letter to the Coritnhians, chapter 11:
24Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. 25Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was pelted with stones, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, 26I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my fellow Jews, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false believers. 27I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked.

 This man, wrote the letter to the Philippians from the prison in Rome while facing a death sentence, a letter that speaks of joy several times. I became consciously aware of joy in this letter, through attending a session by Anand Pillai, a man born into Hinduism, rated as one of the top 10 influencers in India and among the top 50 in the world and now a believer in Christ and the Gospel. This man survived the loss of his father and mother in a closely knit family within a span of few years. Driven to despair, he picked up the New Testament out of curiosity and the rest of his life is a living testimony of the transforming power of the Gospel of Christ. Being no stranger to suffering in his own life in various ways, this man bears witness to Joy in the midst of suffering.

Going back to the first century Rome, where Paul and several others like him suffered extreme pain, loss and suffering under a Roman regime that opposed the Christian faith and denied them the basic freedom of worship. Paul says to the Philippians in chapter 1, verse 4 of his letter:

I thank my God every time I remember you. 4In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 6being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

And again in verse 18:

But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.
Yes, and I will continue to rejoice

Here is a man who not only has come to terms with suffering in his life, he is at this point not wallowing in self-pity, but writing to people in Philippi a joyful letter of encouragement, unashamed of his suffering for a just cause. Therefore my dear friends, I'd like to emphasize this lesser know aspect of true piety - a joy unlike the passing joys of this world. A joy which no money can buy. A joy of knowing you are right with God and with people despite what has passed and what may come in the future. We enter into the holy week where we meditate on the Passion of our Lord Christ. Let us always remember that without the cross, there would not have been a Resurrection and the joy in the Lord who has overcome sin, death, evil and sorrow for ever and given suffering a new, Redeeming power and meaning; this Lord is with us and is the source of eternal joy. Amen.

Friday, February 23, 2007

Work and life

I had posted earlier about sanctity as the current in the river of my life. What is the part of work in this? For me, work is a necessity in my life towards holiness. I need to work in an offering to my Heavenly Father, with complete trust, giving Him all that I have each day. Starting from the time I received education, I have to continue to practice virtue while I work and toil, trying to learn and grow as my Heavenly Father makes possible. I need to be prepared to take on the difficulties which may present themselves during the course of my professional life, always taking care to be at peace with people I work with.

The most valuable food for me is the words which my Lord Jesus Christ offers me with respect to living the Gospel. He teaches me through His own life as a carpenter, making furniture for people. He is a man of honour, though sometimes it seems in the Gospel that being a "carpenter's son" means that people do not receive His words even if He speaks exactly as the Father and the Holy Spirit inspire Him.

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Seeking paradise

I'm writing from a cafe in Kalamassery on a hot summer afternoon. There's little opportunity to post on the net since connections are slow here. It is a most blessed life for those who seek it. So it means that not everyone finds this same joy abounding.

Perspectives matter more in life than anything else. Last night we watched a movie on St Bernadette, the saint to whom the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared in a then nondescript French village, Lourdes. The dean said to the skeptic imperial prosecutor (appointed by the emperor to put in prison violators of the law) -

"For those who believe in God, no explanation is necessary. For those who do not, no explanation is possible."

Therefore, what one sees in life is based completely upon one's openness to Divinity. Certainly, many pass through life without believing there is any good in doing good. I do not attempt to convince anyone to the contrary if such are not open to Divinity. As for me, if there is no God or Divinity, there is nothing in human life at all.

I studied well and became an engineer. Providence provided this education and a good rewarding job. Providence would give me a wonderful opportunity to show the greatness of my faith. Heaven presented me the high road to realizing my life's purpose and fullness - to be like God our Heavenly Father. This was my calling and remains the most momentous message of my life, the call to follow Jesus Christ.

"You can live your life as if nothing is a miracle or you can live it as if everything is."

Indeed, believing comes before anything. Faith is the necessary precursor to grace and blessing. My life and yours can only work in blessing if we offer ourselves into Divine hands. Faith then is a relationship with one infinitely faithful. Knowing Divine faithfulness, we are called to be faithful ourselves, never give up on God.

Celibacy and religious life is like a call to marry God. It can be like a woman or man marrying his beloved and being called to be faithful. The woman or man may not see his or her beloved for many days, years or the whole life. Yet, the person is challenged to remain faithful even though people may pass rumors that the beloved is unfaithful.

I once met a newly wed young man who's wife had to leave immediately to Australia. He said they were getting closer through that experience. In the case of consecration to religious life, one does not see the loved one, yet called to be faithful. Experiences of God may or may not come. Even if they do, they may be rare.

To be a religious is a marriage sublime and Divine. It needs a far greater generosity than human marriage. Contrary to what many believe, it is possible to be faithful in such a relationship because Christ says "My grace is sufficient for you." Therefore, we need to continually seek this Divine grace to remain faithful till our end.

We should not stop at religious vows. It is only the beginning and we start this journey seeking to be close to God and communicate with Him. We should seek Him with all our hearts, souls, minds and strength. This is the way to perfection of love. This is the answer to the brotherly love the world needs too. For to love God one loves ones neighbour.